Ela

I have always been the one organising things. The guest list, the music, the drinks, the rules. It was probably inevitable that I would eventually start organising the people too.

My dominant side properly developed while helping host private kink evenings, where I learnt how important it is to make everyone feel comfortable without losing control of the room. I later built on that experience with practical rope guidance and impact training, but I have never lost the relaxed, personal style that first drew people to me.

I like a session to feel natural from the beginning. We can talk, flirt and settle into the mood before I decide how much freedom you are keeping. Bondage brings out my patient side, while latex tends to make me feel much less innocent. Caning and ball busting are perfect when I want to sharpen the atmosphere, and strap-on play is for those ready to trust me properly.

I am warm, confident and very easy to relax around.

That usually makes it even more entertaining when you realise I have been making the decisions all along.